How to Help a Hip Fracture: One Facet

I recently read the following: “Experts know that an osteoporotic hip fracture is disastrous, as 12% to 40% of victims die within six months (partly because they tend to become depressed and more sedentary).” (1)

“. . . depressed and more sedentary”

Oh, that is an awful combination!

I would like to focus on those two aspects – depression and sedentary lifestyle.

Many of our seniors fall into those two categories, whether they have a broken hip or not.

What are some helpful tips to encourage movement and uplift a senior?

As a caregiver, you can encourage movement. Try the following:

Say, “Hey, Mom let’s go ______.” [fill in the blank – shopping, to the library, for a walk, outside, visit a friend, etc.]

Choose something that your loved one enjoys. Schedule it and do it!

Sometimes, (if apropros given the current pandemic), go out to eat.

Helps (basic) for saddness

Sometimes, just a visit from a loved one will lift one’s spirit.

Get out and do something – out for a walk, visit a flower garden, go shopping, get a favorite meal, etc.

A best practice – help someone else! Often a senior feels “worthless,” like their life lacks value or importance. They are no longer working. Sometimes a spouse has passed. Creatively think of ways they could help others – I’ve seen some of the following used:

  • Visit in an assisted living home (provide music, read to people, chat with residents, etc.)
  • Help with kids – nothing like the life of the young to lift the spirit of the older!
  • Along similar lines, help a busy mom – fold laundry, iron, repair things around the house, etc.
  • Be involved in church ministry
  • Volunteer – RSVP is a great organization, etc.
  • Write letters (perhaps an overseas orphan or penpal); call others
  • Sponsor a needy child/family

Be involved in worthwhile community or church projects.

(If the depression is serious enough, make sure to seek professional medical advice.)

(1) Needs Natural News Vol. 4, Issue 6 p.2.

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Recipe for Adding Calories/ Nourishment (Helpful in Cancer Patients, etc.)

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Here is a delicious recipe (that works!) for adding calories or nourishing someone who is limited in their food consumption.

This can be particularly helpful for cancer patients or perhaps for an individual at the end of their life.

Calorie-Increase Recipe:

  • 3 Carnation(R) Instant Breakfasts
  • 12 oz icecream
  • 12 oz ginger ale
  • 1 teaspoon lemon juice

Blend all ingredients and serve in portions throughout the day. (This is designed to stretch for a day [perhaps longer].)

Make Your Own Electrolyte Beverage

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I ran into the following as a newspaper clipping. Great idea!!

Here is an easy way to make an electrolyte drink at home:

  1. Take an 8 ounce glass
  2. Add the following:
    1. 1 Tablespoon sugar
    2. 1 Tablespoon orange juice (I assume concentrate)
    3. 1/4 teaspoon salt
  3. Fill glass with cool water and stir
  4. Enjoy!

Easy!

Caring for an Individual – Helpful Resources

There are many resources available that provide helpful information for the individual caring for someone else, but did you know one of the best resources??

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It’s visual, can walk you through step by step, and you can re-watch it as often as necessary.

Can you guess it??

I found this EXTREMELY useful when caring for my mom (and others).

It seems inevitably that something new comes along with the person’s needs, and thus begins the search for a resource to help solve the different need.

(In this case, many of the information I’m thinking of is the more “advanced” caregiving – transferring out of chairs or from lying in a bed, toileting, etc., but I’m sure there are many other applications.

Here’s the idea – YouTube!!

It has many videos about caring for others (warning: some not so good!!!) But there are professionally-done ones that provide great information.

Here is one such example of a video about transferring to a chair that is well-done:

What to Say to Those Who Are Caring for Someone Terminally Ill

This post is written for those who are not in your immediate situation, for those trying to lend a helping hand, but truly don’t know completely what you are going through.

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What to say??

It’s a question with which we’ve all struggled. I want to be a help; I want to encourage my friend or loved one, but what exactly do I say to them when the situation is horrible?

In this case, I’m thinking of the person caring for someone who is terminal.

One word of wisdom – if the terminal person is doing poorly, it’s probably best to refrain from asking “How’s so-and-so doing?”

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It would be better to focus on how the caregiver is doing. Ask a questions such as:

How are YOU?

What can I do to help you? (pick up groceries?, bring a meal?, etc.)

Many times, just sitting there with them – letting them share their heart, cry all over you, etc. is the absolute best therapy they need. Be there for them.

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I’ve had sweet, amazing people say to me –

Call me anytime. “If you need to talk, CALL me.”

They knew! What a comfort to know that SOMEONE was there.

That was one of the most treasured things that I had – just knowing that they were there and that someone was available at any point when needed.

Another individual used to come to me and say “What’s going on?” and truly wanted to know what was happening. They were not afraid of the “rough and tough” aspects of life. I so appreciated that! They cared and gave their time for me.

Tip to Boost Your Spirits

It’s a beautiful spring day!

Give this a try – to help “boost your spirits,” just try stepping outside.

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Some fresh air. Some sunshine.

Perhaps even taking a short walk.

Breathe deeply, absorbing the fresh air. Reflect. Observe. Outside is beautiful and will encourage your heart!

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How to Help Someone Who Lost a Spouse

Loosing a spouse – a longtime companion – can be a huge hurdle.

How can you comfort or be an encouragement for those who lost someone they loved so deeply?


I like the perspective in this article from Red River Valley Hospice:

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In particular, this quote stuck out to me (concerning the one who lost their loved one) –

“They are [now] trying to figure out …
who they are …”

Jennifer Messelt

I have seen that many times in those who are sorting the emotions of losing a longtime spouse.

Here’s the good article about helping a spouse through their loss

Article link

Best Replacement for Tennis Balls on a Walker

Yep, those infamous yellow tennis balls – they’re good. They work.

(But have you ever seen how dirty they get?!!!)

They often need replacement too.


Here is my solution for every senior with whom I am in contact.

Walker Glides

These are wonderful! They last; they provide a great balance between “glide” and solid traction.

They work well on a multitude of surfaces.

And – get this – they’re inexpensive!!!

Where to find:

Amazon

I’ve always purchased this brand and have been very pleased.

How to use:

  1. Remove previous “endcap.”
  2. Press walker glide into tube of walker. You may need to twist it to help get it into location.
  3. Make sure the “curled up” side is facing forward when walker is in use.
  4. Presto – all set!

Where to Find Home-Care Equipment

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Ever been on the search for a home-care product and had no idea where to even start?

A few years ago, I cared for someone who had injured their back. Instant flat-on-back and in bed. Need for items like a bedside commode and walkers was IMMEDIATE. Aye-vay!

Well, here are some of the resources that you can try to help in locating caregiving items:

Resources:

Rehabmart (website link)

Local caregiving organizations
(In our area, one place sold durable equipment and was a great resource.)

American Legion – they will often accept donations and have equipment available

Ebay – who doesn’t love eBay?

Amazon
(I have purchased innumerable items from them – shipped directly to my door! [from bed rails, to walkers, dysphagia items, etc.])

Local drug stores (or online) – CVS, RiteAid, Walgreens, etc.
Sometimes they carry a specific product that others do not carry.

Walmart
(They sometimes carry items you would never expect, and the prices can be more reasonable.)

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