You are several weeks/ months out. But, sadly, you know the inevitable is coming.
May I encourage you in something?
Have those conversations – discuss those facts you want/need!
You will be so glad you did!
I know I am!!!
It is so much easier – just thinking of a funeral – it is no longer a massive, overwhelming dread.
Write the obituary (at least a rough draft – you will be surprised what you don’t know)
Talk about the service – the songs, who does what, etc.
I know I found great peace in doing this in advance of my loved ones passing! It truly was a blessing, especially when “the big event” happened.
Here is another hint – do the same for yourself:
Fill in those end-of-life questionaires, write those biographies – what you want known of your life history.
Throw in a few fun things!
[Hubby, I —]
[Daughter, I wish you the best …, etc.]